Breastfeeding Is Not For Everyone

Although, there seems to be a great deal of pressure coming from all over that it is the only way to raise a baby. Yes, I know all of the benefits and how good it is for Mom and Baby. (I've spent the last several months having that information pumped into me from multiple sources.) However, I think that the mental health of the mother needs to be considered in this decision. Yes, I am talking about myself. We have introduced the bottle to Layla and are giving her formula. I'm still breastfeeding at times and am pumping and giving her the milk I pump. Yes, I will do that much; I could not, however, continue on the feeding-around-the-clock schedule Layla and I were on. To clarify, I know that breastfeeding is demanding. I know that it requires a lot of time and energy, etc. But when the baby is feeding 17 times in 24 hours, and none of those times are less than 20 minutes (and many are around 60) it is time to make a change. I've talked with the lactation consultants; I've received lots of advice and tips from just about every breastfeeding mother I know. It just isn't working. I don't want more tips and advice, I just want a healthy, satisfied baby. Which, by the way, is what I've had since yesterday when we started bottle feeding, and which I've actually been able to enjoy for the first time in weeks without feeling stressed. I'm satisfied with our decision and Layla finally seems satisfied after feedings. That's worth it to me. I'm not asking anyone to agree with our decision and I honestly don't mind who disapproves. I'm only posting this in hopes that it may benefit another stressed out mom who feels unnecessary pressure and guilt. Breastfeeding is not for everyone.